10 Ridiculously Fun Valentine's Day Party Ideas for Adults » All Gifts Considered (2024)

Ella Fitzgerald once said, “Comes love, nothing can be done.”

While I’m inclined to agree (because how could I disagree with Ella?), come February 14th somethingdefinitelycan be done. That’s right. A humdinger of a Valentine’s Day party can be done.

Or had, if we’re using proper grammar. Tomayto, tomahto.

Anyway, party enthusiasts can buckle up for a Valentine’s Day celebration that’s anything but old hat. Valentine’s Day parties solely focused on romantic love are yesterday’s news, and — hot take — that’s totally okay with me.

Celebrating love isn’t just for couples anymore (though we have ideas for you guys, too, not to worry); it’s for besties, gal-pals, and the whole crew!

Whether you’re flying solo, hanging with your pals, throwing a dinner party with family members, or enjoying a cozy night with your special someone, we’ve got the scoop on crafting a celebration that’s uniquely yours.

This guide is your new go-to list of Valentine’s Day party ideas for adults — no cheesy vibes, just fun and genuinely entertaining suggestions for your adult Valentine’s Day event. You can throw a legit party and have some good old-fashioned fun with friendsandlovers.

Here’s how.

Top 10 Valentine Party Ideas for Adults

Get ready to release your inner cupid (or party animal) with plenty of ideas that are delightfully out-of-the-ordinary.

Even if you’re in the “I hate Valentine’s Day” crowd, we have some solid party suggestions that may just convert you to a Valentine’s Day enthusiast.

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1. Host a Karaoke Party

Whether you belt out “I Will Always Love You” with Whitney, dance to “Mama Mia” with ABBA, or croon along with TXT’s “Anti-Romantic,” you and the whole crew can screech about love, loss, and everything in between all night long.

Not to mention it’s the perfect opportunity to share all of your favorite love songs with your friends! We guarantee you won’t run out of amorous songs to, uh, artfully un-alive.

2. Legendary Couples Party

I don’t know about you, but costume parties are one of my favorite things ever.

This year, invite all your favorite couples to embrace the fact that they are annoyingly disgusting (in the name of love, of course) and have a “legendary couples” theme for your Valentine’s Day party.

Go gangster and dress up like Bonnie and Clyde. Or, if you have a flair for the dramatic, maybe Marc Antony and Cleopatra. Make a contest out of it and have everyone vote for their favorites!

Need more legendary couple ideas? We got you, boo:

• Romeo & Juliet
• Marilyn Monroe & Joe DiMaggio
• John & Jackie Kennedy
• Adam & Eve
• PrincessLeiaandHanSolo
• Westley & Buttercup
• Jack & Rose
• Napoleon & Josephine
• Bogart & Bacall

3. Anti-Romantic Game Night

Host an anti-love game night with one of these great Valentine’s Day party games.

Embrace your grumpy, cantankerous, or downright villainous side with a card game that’s perfect to play with the newly single or just the jaded.

4. Galentine’s Day Brunch Party

I can personally attest to the fun level of a Girls-Only Galentine’s Day Party, as I either host or attend one nearly every year.

Grab an adorable heart-shaped waffle maker, make a girl power playlist with pink sparkly vibes, and celebrate the beauty of good company and quality time amongst friends.

5. Valentine Raffle Blast

Whether it’s for money (like onthese tickets) or fun goodie bags, a raffle is always a fun activity and a great way to boost up a party!

You can make your own raffle tickets, or order some ready-made. Be sure to choose exciting and enticing prizes!

More prizes that don’t include cold, hard cash might be:

• Desserts (pies, cakes, cookies, candy bars)
• Night of free babysitting
• Car wash
• Tickets to a local play/show/dance
• Bottle of wine
• Gift card to restaurant

6. Anti-Valentine’s Day Party

Not everyone loves celebrating “love.”

Don’t worry — there’s a Valentine’s Day party for them, too! Get all your single friends together and enjoy a day of rebelling against love. Watch non-romantic movies such as The First Wives Club or My Bloody Valentine.

Decorate with “Love Stinks” anti-Valentine’s Day balloons. You can even accent your cupcakes withthese cute toppersthat say things like, “It’s not you, it’s me,” and “Be my ex.”

7. Host a Sip Party

Ever heard of “Paint & Sip” parties?

Well, while you’re more than welcome to paint the night away, if you have a less artistically inclined friend group there’s nothing wrong with just having a sip party.

When you’re planning a Valentine’s Day party for adults, nothing is classier than some exotic co*cktails! Follow the recipe inthis videoto make some Love Martinis to enjoy with your chocolate-covered strawberries, oysters, chili peppers, figs, and artichokes.

Okay, that sounds like a weird menu…we were going for aphrodisiacs. It would probably be easier to just stick with these Love Martinis and maybe, like, finger sandwiches or a couple of charcuterie boards or something.

8. Heart Cookie Decorating Contest

Sugar cookies that are onlyslightlyDIY?

Well, thisValentine’s Day sugar cookie kitsounds perfect! Have a little contest (and satisfy your sweet tooth) with all your friends to see who can frost, pipe, and decorate the best.

Of course, you’ll get to eat all the “ugly” ones, so it’s a win-win for all involved. Don’t forget to have a judge! Best. Job. Ever.

9. Chocolate Fondue Party

Chocolate is to Valentine’s Day what Dean Martin is to an Italian-American restaurant — essential.

So why not have a whole fountain of chocolatey goodness flowing at your get-together? You can get cute little, themed skewers, strawberries, cookies, you name it!

You could even add a few drops of food coloring to white chocolate and have a pink fountain, too! All your party guests will love indulging in these sweet treats.

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10. Rom-Com Movie Night

Have a Valentine’s Day-themed movie night!

Movie night is always a great party idea, and so easy, too, once you cue up your favorite streaming service. Whether it’s just the two of you, your single gals, or your couple friends — end the night binge-watching your favorite Valentine’s rom-coms.

TIP:Want to put a twist on it? Go ahead and make it a pajama party as well! Might as well be comfy while you’re at it.

• How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days
• Crazy Rich Asians
• You’ve Got Mail
• Brides Maids
• She’s the Man
• Why Him
• Did You Hear About the Morgans?
• He’s Just Not that Into You
• 13 Going on 30

From intimate gatherings to lively soirées, we’ve offered up a variety of ideas to suit just about any style.

So, don’t settle for the ordinary — let’s elevate your celebration, create lasting memories, and make this Valentine’s Day uniquely yours. Click, plan, and let the love-infused festivities commence! Your perfect Valentine’s Day bash awaits!

Have a memorable Valentine’s Day party that you’d like to share with us?

Feel free to let us know in the comments!

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